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- Understanding Child Custody Jurisdiction
- How To End Your Affair
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Why Affairs Don’t Last

The intense romantic chemistry that is the hallmark of infatuation is impossible to maintain. The research of Helen Fisher and other neuroscientists, along with the anecdotal evidence from most marriage gurus, puts the threshold of infatuation between twelve and eighteen months. … Continue reading
Being The Safe Place For Your Marriage During Infidelity

“Everybody is looking for validation, no matter who you are, and I think that’s a need of the human condition – to look for affection or recognition or validation.” – Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu Being The Safe Place For Your … Continue reading
Posted in Combating The Affair Fog, Communication Skills, Coping with Infidelity, Emotional Fulfillment, Featured Articles, Listening, Musings on Marriage, Relationship Recovery, Relationship Safety & Security, Validation
Tagged betrayal, boundaries, cheating, infidelity, safety, security
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Surviving Infidelity During The Holidays

I stumbled yesterday into a little antiques and used bookstore in the tiny town where I live. Somewhere between the books on Civil War heroes and the vintage prints at the back of the store I started to cry. In … Continue reading
Essential Steps to Recover Your Marriage After Infidelity

Essential Steps to Recover Your Marriage After Infidelity Infidelity affects nearly 80% of the marriages in the US. Most marriages that are rocked by infidelity do not end due to the affair; if the marriage ends in divorce following an … Continue reading
How To End Your Affair

You have gotten yourself in a big mess. Whether you are the cheating “wayward” spouse or the affair partner, your affair needs to end and you know it, but you can’t quite figure out how to end your affair. Ending … Continue reading
A Betrayed Spouse’s Guide to Responding to Marital Infidelity – Part VI

In Part V of this series, we explored how a Betrayed Spouse can begin the process of recovering a marriage after an affair, as well as some cautions about pitfalls such as false recovery. Part VI will cover how a Betrayed … Continue reading
Posted in Coping with Infidelity, Featured Articles, Guides, Infidelity & Affair Recovery, Infidelity Help
Tagged Affair, betrayal, cheating, healing, infidelity, reconciliation, recovery, tips
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A Betrayed Spouse’s Guide to Responding to Marital Infidelity – Part V

In Part IV of this series, we explored how a Betrayed Spouse can make a decision on whether or not to attempt marital recovery. Part V will cover how a Betrayed Spouse can navigate recovering the marriage from infidelity. Recovering a … Continue reading
Posted in Coping with Infidelity, Guides, Infidelity & Affair Recovery, Infidelity Help
Tagged Affair, betrayal, cheating, healing, infidelity, reconciliation, recovery, tips
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I Cheated, and Now I Need Help!

You’ve cheated, and now you need help. Maybe you have ended your affair, or maybe you want to and can’t find the willpower to stick to it. You have searched for help on websites or forums, and you’ve stumbled upon … Continue reading
What Should I Do When My Spouse Is Having An Affair?

When your spouse is having an affair, your world becomes a confusing, scary place full of hurt, shame, and anger. You will wonder why this has happened and what action(s) to take. “Love is understood, in a historical way, as … Continue reading
Posted in Coping with Infidelity, Featured Articles, Infidelity & Affair Recovery
Tagged Affair, betrayal, cheating, deceit, deception, infidelity, reconciliation, recovery
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Anatomy Of an Affair: How Long Do Affairs Last?

The question “How long do affairs last?” comes up in almost every discussion about affairs, for a variety of reasons. It is often one of the first questions asked by people who have recently discovered that their spouse has been … Continue reading
Posted in Anatomy of an Affair, Featured Articles, Guides, Infidelity & Affair Recovery, Infidelity Help
Tagged Affair, betrayal, cheating, infidelity
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