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Category Archives: Boundaries
For Better Or Worse: Marriage Vows Are For The Hard Times
Several years ago, I wrote an article titled “So Did You Mean It When You Said,” asking if you were serious when you vowed, “For better or for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and health,” and so forth. It remains, … Continue reading
Boundaries In Marriage – Part I: Couples In Intimate Relationships
Boundaries in marriage pose challenges to many. Even as I began to understand Personal Boundaries, I am still stunned by what happens with a couple in a committed relationship. People constantly tell me that they can get along with anyone except their … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part VI: When Your Boundaries Conflict With Someone Else’s
“That is my desk. Please leave it alone.” “No, it’s my desk, and I’ll use it whenever I please.” Until now, this series has focused on more clear-cut personal boundaries, including property ownership. But what happens when ownership is shared: more … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part V: Boundary Position Statements
“That is my desk. Please leave it alone.” “If you do that again, I will leave.” “I will not let myself be treated this way.” Have you ever said these things, or something similar? Most of us have, which is good. … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part IV: Boundary Attack Awareness
Have you ever felt upset? What about: Angry? Indignant? Frustrated? Resentful? Battered? Agonized? Furious? I think that we all have. These emotions are part of the human experience. They are also signs of a Boundary Invasion. Now that we know what Boundaries … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part III: The Energy of Boundaries
“That doesn’t feel good.” “Dammit, stop that!” “I’m leaving!” Have you ever said any of the above, or something very similar? I think that we all have. These statements are Defending Your Boundaries. How do we choose the appropriate defense … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part II: Defending Your Boundaries
“He keeps crossing my boundary!” “She thinks I’ll put up with this.” “Why do I always let people take advantage of me?” “Why can’t I say no?” “I try to be nice, but all I get in return is more … Continue reading
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Personal Boundaries – Part I: An Introduction To Boundaries
Do you have boundary problems? Have you been told that you need better boundaries? Do you have trouble understanding boundaries or defending your boundaries? You are not alone. I recall first hearing the word “boundaries” in about 1981. I finally … Continue reading
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Boundaries In Marriage and Interpersonal Relationships
Boundaries are perhaps one of the most tossed about ideas in discussions of marriage and problems within marriage and families. The word “boundaries” is often so misunderstood that discussions about boundaries seem to permeate nearly every thread of those dealing with … Continue reading