Originally Posted By: Vittoria
I agree Medc. Remember, we've experienced it and are fully aware of just how crippling that hurt is. Not having had to experience it first hand, I could only imagine how awful it would be to discover an A, the imagination can never do that type of pain justice. Much like we can't ever know the pain of guilt for inflicting such hurt.

I see ST's point like you and I see her view of how no/little reaction can be seen as no/little care.

Thank you MEDC and Vitt, for understanding where I was coming from. You are correct, I know I wouldn't really want to be witness to that or to know that I had caused it.

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