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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: lost rabbit] #32105
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I am changing the name of the ow, what name I had just doesn't fit the description. After talking with my supporter, I have the perfect name.

grwasc which stands for grim reaper with a sex change

This ow has this name grim reaper because my H said he is a senior citizen, yes right, at 56 with college aged girls...ok
and he said he is waiting to die...so he wants to be with the grim reaper to aide in that wish....right

and usually in books the grim reaper is a male, but this ow....

so grwasc



tink

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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: ] #33889
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I didn't want a depressing name, because I had already decided that no matter what happens, I will be okay. The day I registered I decided I would be returning to my maiden name if/when the divorce goes through. That means my Cajun roots will be showing again. So here I am, the Cajun girl who's going to bloom wherever she's planted smile


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Lifechoice] #40417
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Originally Posted By: Lifechoice
Originally Posted By: Chrysalis
Originally Posted By: Ace

Why did YOU choose your screen name(s)?



Um, Because you made me?

Over at another forum I started out as In_Limbo_Land, which is where I lived in my head for far too long.
Acey, It was you who challenged me to change my name to something more positive.

I chose Chrysalis to reflect beauty emerging from a time of near, or seeming, death. Which is something I still aspire to.


LOL, I almost spit my yogurt all over my laptop. I remember when she made you change your name.


Somehow I missed commenting on this disrespectful post! blushing

But in order to shamelessly bump this thread after seeing that someone was reading it this morning, I will defend my position by asking if anyone else sees the disconnect in the 3 phrases I've highlighted in red above?

On one had, I consider it somewhat a compliment that I could be perceived as having such power as to MAKE anyone do anything as suggested by both LC and Chrys above.

On the other hand, as Chrys correctly recalled, I challenged her to change her name from ILL (for In_Limbo_Land) to something positive that might help stop her high incidence of false recoveries. I merely challenged; ILL made her own choice IMVHO.

The bottom line question is: Did the False Recoveries subsequently stop? (well...uhhh...eventually anyway! blush )

I rest my case!

Click to reveal..
laugh1 grin ROFL thumbsup waves laugh1


Acey

P.S. I am in awe of the hard work that both LC/Docp and Chrysalis/Chewy did and continue to do to recover their marriages and (as in LC/Docp's case) make their recoverED marriage better. claps



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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #46170
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Funny I'm just finding this now. I did this on the DB site to have some fun.

Well, I was originally one-sad-dad but was asked to chenge it into something more positive.

At the time D4 and I were singing a Travis Tritt tune .....

It's A Great Day to Be Alive. gr8 day 2b alive

I thought it was appropriate and positive.

We still sing that song together.
No my S3 knows to words too.

I love it when it comes on in the car when we're all together.


Find a passion and pursue it.Fall in love.Dream Big.drink wine, eat good food and spend quality time with good friends.laugh everyday.tell stories. learn more. never give up. be grateful try new things be. happy. and above all, make every moment count.
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: gr8 day 2b alive] #46780
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Texas - that narrows it a bit ...
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Texas - that narrows it a bit ...
So - Ace - you gonna update your list now that we hit 300 members smile

My gamer tag since I was about 12 has been Mouse. I love that tag. It's just... so me. I have a mousey little voice - and I think they are the cutest things ever. DH calls me his little Mousey. My computer avatar is always a mouse and all my computers are named after some type of cheese.

When I decided to post at MB, I wanted to use my tag - I have an old name I used for online stuff in highschool but I felt it was time for a change.

Of course, Mouse was taken. I didn't feel like coming up with some variation, so I thought - a mouse has whiskers so I'll be Whiskers.... which, of course, was also taken. So I typed whiskers into google and came up with the Wikipedia page for Vibrissae - or singular Vibrissa. A Vibrissa is one whisker. It sounded intriguing so I took it. In the months sense, I've come to feel it appropriate.

I sit and think - ponder - a lot. Most nights I can't seem to get to sleep because my thoughts are vibrating around in my head.

So that's me.


Moi: 33
DH: Kenichi 33
M: 8/2005
DD 6 yrs
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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Vibrissa] #48220
01/10/11 06:33 AM
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Originally Posted By: Vibrissa
So - Ace - you gonna update your list now that we hit 300 members smile


How nice of you to notice, Vibs. grin I won't be able to update it for a long while but you're welcome to do it when you need another project for your plate! LOL

Ace


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #77509
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I am late to this thread, but want to share my user name story since I read everyone included here.

My name is Patricia, but my mom has always called me Patty. When my husband and I met and then fell in love, he would call me his little peppermint patty. When I found MB after dday and needed a user name, I thought of those sweet days of young love and the pure happiness of just being together. So I became peppermint, and I wanted to use the same name here.

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: peppermint] #77515
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Sweet!

LA





(okay, your post really touched me, peppermint...I just couldn't resist the smile in saying just that one word)


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: TACticGAL] #77674
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Originally Posted By: theantichick
I have always been a non-"girly" type. Jeans, t-shirts, and hi-tops in high school. I almost always get along better as friends with men than women. I take care of my own general maintenance stuff around the house as well as the car. I tend to interact in the stereotypically "male" fashion - focusing on solving the issue instead of just listening, and am more logically minded than the stereotypical female.

So I decided a while ago to start using the moniker The AntiChick online. smile


I am not a "girly" type either, but I chose kimmie lee because it DID sound kinda "girly." My real name is pretty generic, but I was still paranoid of being found online by x.

So, that's my very interesting and profound back-story.

A-C, although I am not "girly," I am completely inept when it comes to home or auto repair. I just hire someone to fix stuff, or bat my eyelashes at my neighbor and act all helpless.


THE FOG comes
on little cat feet.

It sits looking
over harbor and city
on silent haunches
and then moves on....C. Sandburg


GOSH!!
GOLLY!!
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: kimmie lee] #77767
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I chose mine 'cause I do play the fiddle IRL (and the violin - same instrument, it's how you play 'em that makes the difference). The '3' came from "Old King Cole".

The lack of vowels was inspired by seeing a mug that said "f u cn rd ths u cnt spl wrth a dmn" mug on Amazon.


"Grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know that one is me."
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Vibrissa] #81070
03/13/11 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By: Vibrissa
So - Ace - you gonna update your list now that we hit 300 members smile


We are approaching (or have passed) the 400 member mark. Anyone wanna volunteer to update the user list and put screen names in alphabetical order? It makes is easier to see if your friends are here ~~~ as long as they are using familiar handles from other forums.

Thanks,
Ace


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #81758
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My user name was the most number of entendres I could pack into one word. Plus it leads to the inevitable question, exactly what is he holding on to? People who know "me" from here and MB know what I am holding on to. It is sad, isn't it?


Solutions? There are none. There are decisions.
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: holdingontoit] #86873
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Hi Hold,

Glad you're here and I may be able to include your name when I try to update this list now that we have 400+ members.

Thanks for your patience.

Ace





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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #87006
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I picked my name b/c it sounds a little like my name in real life. I'm also very into the outdoors and wildlife and it's the Latin name for one of my favorite mammals, the fisher cat. And I also fish. So there you have it.

P.S. That's a fisher cat in my avatar. P.P.S. The fisher is not actually anything like a cat.

Martes

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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Martes] #87025
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I love your avatar. Very cute. thumbsup


THE FOG comes
on little cat feet.

It sits looking
over harbor and city
on silent haunches
and then moves on....C. Sandburg


GOSH!!
GOLLY!!
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: kimmie lee] #87753
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Martes - every time I see your name I think 'Tuesday'

Martes is Tuesday in Spanish. I like the fisher cat better, very cute!

Gladstone - I never would have thought you took your name from Donald Duck's cousin. Every time I see your name I think of Gladstone, the British Prime Minister from the 19th Century...
VS

I'm such a geek grin


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Vibrissa] #87787
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um lets see

I have been lots of things but on this site I was Sistereed - i .e. bend and not break during troubled times

I have since changed to Amadahy which is a native american word that means Forest Water..because I love the forest and water and wanted something earth goddess like that embodies who I feel like I am inside.

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #101009
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Originally Posted By: Ace

Finally got a moment to update this member list of screen names. According to the right column log, we have 258 members(417 as of May 2, 2011).

Below are two lists in alphabetical order:

The first list includes members with 5 or more posts.

The second one lists members with less than 5 posts as of Fri. Dec. 3, 2010 but who have logged in to MA at least once since Nov. 1, 2010.

Posters who have registered but have not posted yet can be found on the latter pages of the User List which can be accessed from the link above.

Members with 5 or more posts as of Dec. 3, 2010:

*~aeri~* (Member #104)
2long (Member #10)
40andsadintexas (Member #182)
Ace (Member #14)
Allen_A (Member #110)
AlTurtle (Member #19)
AnotherShot (Member #130)
AntigoneRisen (Member #5)
aphelion (Member #69)
asher (Member #185)
asher27 (Member #201)
at peace (Member #67)
believer (Member #39)
Belle96 (Member #161)
blahblahblah (Member #219)
BrambleRose (Member #53)
Bugsmom (Member #72)
bustorama (Member #215)
CajunRose (Member #176)
Camper (Member #88)
catperson (Member #29)
CD Bear (Member #121)
Chailover (Member #64)
Chris (Member #108)
chrisner (Member #116)
Chrysalis (Member #25)
cinderella (Member #16)
Coach (Member #122)
Comfortably Numb (Member #111)
crazed student (Member #33)
Curious (Member #90)
dadzzi (Member #118)
Danf (Member #140)
Db9 (Member #177)
Desert Rose (Member #189)
diamondsj (Member #85)
Don Man Don (Member #252)
DumpedforMIL (Member #131)
Eeyore No More (Member #115)
EJohn (Member #157)
Eph525 (Member #103)
faith3343 (Member #55)
Flick (Member #30)
flowmom (Member #239)
ForeverHers (Member #100)
Forrest Gump (Member #132)
futureunknown (Member #192)
Gladstone (Member #4)
gr8 day 2b alive (Member #174)
Greek (Member #171)
Gucci Loafer (Member #253)
gutwrenching (Member #213)
Happy Again (Member #48)
heartbroken (Member #46)
heremainsfaithful (Member #91)
hoosiermama (Member #209)
hope147 (Member #194)
Hope4Luv (Member #220)
hurtinhartford (Member #179)
idontunderstand (Member #183)
ImOK (Member #59)
jaymeister (Member #166)
JimK (Member #12)
john28 (Member #198)
johnstwin (Member #41)
jollynot (Member #210)
JoysDaddy (Member #81)
Kayla (Member #75)
KellBell0820 (Member #199)
kilted_thrower (Member #73)
kimmie lee (Member #162)
Kittycat (Member #36)
KiwiJ (Member #22)
LaFemme (Member #119)
Larry (Member #43)
Le* (Member #15)
Lifechoice (Member #20)
lildoggie (Member #23)
live'n'kickin (Member #148)
LivingWell (Member #86)
Looking4 (Member #27)
Lor (Member #76)
lost rabbit (Member #217)
LovingAnyway (Member #3)
lowesd51 (Member #188)
maple (Member #187)
Mark1952 (Member #18)
markos (Member #106)
Medc (Member #34)
Mimi (Member #47)
mirage (Member #71)
MyRevelation (Member #57)
myschae (Member #224)
Mystik (Member #218)
mza8 (Member #125)
nameless (Member #155)
new_beginning (Member #52)
NewEveryDay (Member #26)
nikko (Member #70)
Not2fun (Member #51)
Number6InGreen (Member #136)
NYGfan (Member #142)
OnTheRocks (Member #233)
Orchid2 (Member #66)
OurHouse (Member #8)
Owl10 (Member #170)
pearlharbr (Member #153)
piano (Member #172)
Pinhead (Member #164)
PMA_BABY! (Member #195)
pookie69 (Member #173)
princessmeggy (Member #248)
PSUBIKER (Member #127)
Puppy Dog Tails (Member #114)
QueeniesAdventures (Member #42)
Quoth The Raven (Member #144)
Ready2Change (Member #181)
redhat (Member #68)
Resonance (Member #78)
Rich57 (Member #191)
right here waiting (Member #13)
rob x (Member #208)
rockedworld (Member #190)
Rollercoasterider (Member #247)
Romeo (Member #232)
Rural Idiot (Member #246)
rwinger (Member #63)
say lavee (Member #147)
Saynomore (Member #143)
Seeing Red (Member #146)
seekingbalance (Member #113)
serendipitous (Member #49)
Serenity13 (Member #227)
SFB (Member #58)
ShinyLover (Member #61)
ShockedOne (Member #193)
SIHW (Member #37)
silentlucidity (Member #92)
silverado (Member #123)
SisteReed (Member #89)
SmartCookie (Member #45)
Snowgoer (Member #32)
So Ashamed (Member #235)
SoL (Member #99)
Soleil (Member #221)
soolee (Member #62)
SpyBunny (Member #211)
star*fish (Member #6)
starbar808 (Member #105)
staytogether (Member #35)
Steadfast & Committed (Member #11)
still seeking (Member #134)
Striving4better (Member #84)
SunnyD (Member #120)
SurvivalnAK (Member #138)
Telly (Member #56)
theantichick (Member #21)
TimeHeals (Member #159)
tinkerbell (Member #98)
ToBeContinued (Member #44)
trix (Member #102)
Vibrissa (Member #112)
VioletMist (Member #101)
Violin (Member #214)
Vittoria (Member #28)
Vulcanized (Member #169)
weaves (Member #24)
willing2work (Member #200)

Members with less than 5 posts as of 12-3-10 but have logged onto MA at least once since 11-1-10:

Boo (Member #79)
Brownhair (Member #137)
Circe (Member #175)
clark_kent (Member #245)
DangerDave (Member #256)
DH4now (Member #229)
Docp_ (Member #242)
doingfine (Member #151)
drgnfly (Member #226)
Edmond Dantes (Member #202)
fddlr3 (Member #222)
GingerSnap (Member #180)
GoldenYears (Member #257)
Holyheart (Member #150)
KerryK (Member #228)
LostBoy68 (Member #83)
LostHusband (Member #31)
mrbond (Member #168)
mulesqb (Member #254)
New Dane (Member #225)
newmama (Member #251)
NotCrackingUp (Member #184)
Purple (Member #206)
SDFoundGirl (Member #236)
Sunnyosity (Member #203)
Want2Stay (Member #93)
XeraRose (Member #128)

Thanks to all who have registered and are helping Marriage Advocates to grow and reach out to more people.

It's fun to read why posters chose their screen names. It could be life-changing, however, if/when members recruit others not yet mentioned who could benefit from the caring community we are building.

Blessings to all,
Ace


Is anyone feeling ambitious, have time for a tedious project and want to invest both into updating this list?

Why?

The User List (third tab from the left on the above task bar between My Stuff and Calendar) lists all members, when they joined and the last time they logged in....but they are not in alphabetical order. If you want to see if someone from another site has joined, if they are using the same screen name you can find them here.

It's been 5 months since I updated this list. Hopefully it will be updated soon. Hey AR/Larry.....is there a magic way to put these active members screen names in alphabetical order using our fancy smancy web tools?

The manual way I've done it is to c/p the User List pages to a word doc, delete all info except member number and then alphabetize before transfering the list back to a post here. The tedious part is deleting extraneous info (and re-bolding the screen names, but that's only for aesthetics).

Ace


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #101066
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I could do it your way Ace (but I like excel) - not right now though...wed night ok?


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Squeaky Tree] #101470
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Originally Posted By: staytogether
I could do it your way Ace (but I like excel) - not right now though...wed night ok?


Excel, Smexcel...any way that works works for me!

Thanks!

Ace


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #102193
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I don't know if I can be much help, but thanks for what you have done.

SS

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Originally Posted By: still seeking
I don't know if I can be much help, but thanks for what you have done.

SS


Glad to see you posting here, Still Seeking. That is helpful in itself.

Is your story posted on MA anywhere? That would also be very helpful for many. I vaguely recall that you helped LovingAnyway way back in MB's yesteryear and if so, you also indirectly helped my H and me, too.

Again, thanks so much.

Ace


We're overcoming decades of marital dysfunction including abuse, passive aggression, gas-lighting & infidelity (both of us).

Our Weird and Ongoing Story
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #102342
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It was fun reading these posts and I needed to be amused tonight. My name is my middle name.

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: MelodyLane] #102515
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DD17 DS14
Which way do you like yourself? ~ Stosny
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #102599
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Originally Posted By: Ace


Is your story posted on MA anywhere?


I don't have much of a story. There was no A at our house. I found MB by accident in 2002. I read some of the materials, and thought that if I used them, it would improve my marriage. Did a little posting here and there. Marriage is wonderful.

Happened to post to LA a few times over the years.

Life is busy right now, I don't have much time to post these days - but I stop by and read from time to time.

I hope life is good at your house.

SS

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