Wow Jayne, I clicked on this today, and this is what it said Week Four: APOLOGY and FORGIVENESS
I remember being married and all the expectations we each had of the holiday and how it felt like the other was the obstacle why the holidays didn't go that way. We were good I think at making plans we both liked, but had so much trouble adjusting as obstacles came up. "If only you didn't wait until the last minute to pick that game for the kids up, it wouldn't be sold out now." "If only I didn't have to wrap all the gifts myself *again* this year, I wouldn't be so cranky." Frustrated at so many things - we're out of some ingredient for some dish that *must* be made, or like mashed potatoes can't be made with 1% milk, it has to be half and half, what do you mean we have no half and half? I wish we would have had the serenity to not "sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff."
So I think Apology and Forgiveness is spot on.