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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Telly] #15217
10/30/10 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Telly
I didn't make the list.

that s*cks.

:-(

I was on MB, too!


hug hug hugSorry, Telly hug hug hug

I didn't have time to do all 5 6 pages but I'll see what can be done about it.

I think the user list is based on post count but I'm not sure. Thanks for posting and I will try to figure out the rest of the list and post it sometime.

Ace

Last edited by Ace; 10/30/10 08:00 PM. Reason: whooops....now it's 6 pages!

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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #15226
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Sniff Sniff

:cry:

I didn't make the list either.

(placing invisible smiley here)

S&C


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Steadfast & Committed] #15348
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Originally Posted by Steadfast & Committed
Sniff Sniff

:cry:

I didn't make the list either.

(placing invisible smiley here)

S&C


OK, S & C...here's the full list. As of Oct. 30, 2010, the following have at least 10 posts or have been logged on MA during the month of October.

The posters included are encouraged to post their new or previous usernames if so desired. (I'll edit it as long as I can ~~~ hey, S & C.....will you kindly edit for me by inserting names or corrections to this list after posters add them to this thread when my edit feature expires? Thanks!) See...that's what your sniff-sniffing gets you! ROFL

Included are some of the former names that posters have listed in their sig lines or elsewhere on MA. Some of the posters who have identified themselves as having posted on DB (Divorce Busters) are noted but we apologize to those we may have missed. If you have never posted on MB (Marriage Builders) or DB, if you would like, please mention that by post so we can welcome you and make that notation on this list. Special thanks to LivingWell for assembling this list.

Ace (Member #14)

*~aeri~* (Member #104)

Allen_A (Member #110) from DB-welcome

AlTurtle (Member #19)

AnotherShot (Member #130)

AntigoneRisen (Member #5) Formerly Takola

aphelion (Member #69)

at peace (Member #67)

believer (Member #39)

BrambleRose (Member #53)

Bugsmom (Member #72)

catperson (Member #29)

Chailover (Member #64)

Chris (Member #108)

chrisner (Member #116)

Chrysalis (Member #25)

Cinderella (Member #16)

Comfortably Numb (Member #111)

crazed student (Member #33) Formerly penaltykill

Curious (Member #90)

dadzzi (Member #118)

Danf (Member #140)

diamondsj (Member #85)

DumpedforMIL (Member #131)

faith3343 (Member #55)

Flick (Member #30)

ForeverHers (Member #100)

Forrest Gump (Member #132)

Gladstone (Member #4) Formerly Cuthbert Calculus

Happy Again (Member #48)

heremainsfaithful (Member #91) Formerly Lurioosi2

ImOK (Member #59)

intruder (Member #142)

JimK (Member #12) Formerly known as K

johnstwin (Member #41)

JoysDaddy (Member #81)

Kayla (Member #75)

kilted_thrower (Member #73)

Kittycat (Member #36)

KiwiJ (Member #22)

LaFemme (Member #119)

Larry (Member #43)

Lifechoice (Member #20)

lildoggie (Member #23)

Linus (Member #136)

live'n'kickin (Member #148)

LivingWell (Member #86) Formerly Loving Boundaries

Looking4 (Member #27)

Lor (Member #76)

LovingAnyway (Member #3)

Mark1952 (Member #18)

markos (Member #106)

Medc (Member #34)

Mimi (Member #47)

mirage (Member #71)

MyRevelation (Member #57)

new_beginning (Member #52)

NewEveryDay (Member #26)

nikko (Member #70)

Not2fun (Member #51)

Orchid2 (Member #66)

OurHouse (Member #8)

PSUBIKER (Member #127)

Puppy Dog Tails (Member #114)

QueeniesAdventures (Member #42)

Quoth The Raven (Member #144)

redhat (Member #68)

right here waiting (Member #13)

SarahK (Member #129)

Saynomore (Member #143)

Seeing Red (Member #146)

seekingbalance (Member #113)

serendipitous (Member #49)

SFB (Member #58)

ShinyLover (Member #61)

SIHW (Member #37)

silentlucidity (Member #92)

silverado (Member #123)

SisteReed (Member #89)

soolee (Member #62)

star*fish (Member #6)

staytogether (Member #35)

Steadfast & Committed (Member #11)

still seeking (Member #134)

SunnyD (Member #120) from DB-welcome

Telly (Member #56)

theantichick (Member #21)

tinkerbell (Member #98) NEW MEMBER-welcome

ToBeContinued (Member #44)

2long (Member #10)

Vibrissa (Member #112)

VioletMist (Member #101)

Vittoria (Member #28)

weaves (Member #24)


If you have not yet mentioned why you chose your screen name(s), please share your reasons if you so desire.

If not, that's OK, too.

Thanks,
Ace


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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #21610
11/15/10 03:57 AM
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Bumping because OH said she couldn't find this thread and for others who would like to share how they chose their screen names.

We will update the lists soon....wow...200 members. Amazing for only 12 weeks or less. For the behind-the-scenes process, it's been much longer.

Sorry you couldn't find this thread, OH. It's the only thread that has a red star on it over on the OT forum.

Ace


We're overcoming decades of marital dysfunction including abuse, passive aggression, gas-lighting & infidelity (both of us).

Our Weird and Ongoing Story
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #21869
11/15/10 06:19 PM
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claps Yay! I made the list, Acey!!!! I'm #143! dancing

And I already shared my story.

God's Blessings,

Say

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Saynomore] #21893
11/15/10 06:46 PM
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Flick was formally fatty on MB, but everyone thought he was being self degenerating and asked him to change it. He chose fatty because even tho he himself is a slender man, when he came home I had faded away to bones (had just hit 45kg) so he felt fat by comparison.

my former name on MB was lildoggie. I have another ID on my first thread - Lil_doggie. I changed it from my initial ID because I realised that it was TMI.


AKA Lildoggie

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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Saynomore] #21930
11/15/10 07:19 PM
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I picked my name because I have to believe and I do believe that good things are waiting for us right around the corner.

Sometimes we just can't see them but I know that out of the most awful situations, something good can happen when I least expect it to.

My H's A tested me. I had no idea if a M could be saved after an A so I googled something like "do you have to divorce after husband's A", and I found MB.

I learned that not only did you not have to divorce but you could build a M that in so many ways could be better than the M you had previously.

I just knew that something good was waiting for me and I was so fortunate to find it, so the name picked itself.


The sun never says to the earth "you owe me"
Look what happens with a love like that.
It lights up the whole sky.
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: serendipitous] #22015
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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: lowesd51] #22022
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Telly does the happy dance.

I'm on the list now too!

("I'm important!!!") :-)

I picked Telly because when I was in the military, people used to shorten my maiden name and called me something close to Telly.

NO relation to Telly from Sesame street, who I find annoying.


Married 13 years
D10
D5
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Telly] #22139
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Oh my gosh...all this time I thought you were a "telly" fan!!! I see that cute red muppett every time I post to you!!!


Married my best friend 7/23/05



Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: *~aeri~*] #22149
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Originally Posted By: *~aeri~*
Oh my gosh...all this time I thought you were a "telly" fan!!! I see that cute red muppett every time I post to you!!!

I always pictured Kojak.

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Curious] #22190
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Lol...that didn't enter my mind...but that's a good one!!!


Married my best friend 7/23/05



Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: *~aeri~*] #22250
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because I don't have a creative bone in my body!!!!


Me45 - S13, D11
Disconnected 7/1/12

I'm a brand new sky to hang the stars upon tonight......
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Danf] #30450
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Great answer Dan.

I was originally Callasdad on DB.

When I Puppy noticed that I would occasionally post my W's name or one of her friends, he asked if my daughter's name was actually Calla.

He Googled the names he had and "divorce" and it went straight to my DB thread.

OOPS!!!

So, in order for the folks following/helping me to be able to find me, I kept CD (the posting abbr for Callasdad) and added Bear from an old nickname "Rouch the Bear"

Oddly, I've 'earned' a new variation "Seedy Bare"

Last edited by CD Bear; 12/01/10 01:20 AM.

M48
W30
D3
T6
M4
ILYBNILWY 04/10
Bomb 05/10 Bad MC!!
Exposure 07/14/10
Living seperately since then.
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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: CD Bear] #30462
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From the Richard Marx 1989 song, "Right Here Waiting." It always made me cry.

Within a week after D-Day, I had seen a lawyer and had my wedding ring cut off. I was LIVID.

After the initial shock passed, I decided "NO. When I said 'till death do us part,' I meant it." Decided to fight, but was really worried I'd stop caring before he came around, like I'd seen happen to ALL of my divorced friends.

By the time I registered on MB, I'd adopted rightherewaiting, both as my "stand" and a self-exhortation to hold to it.

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: CD Bear] #30463
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I choose tinkerbell (but now go by tink) since my dad said I looked like tinkerbell as a child, that little flying elf

If I had wings wow would I fly to some places I would love to see

I had trouble finding a pic of tinker since the copywrites, so I thought a skidding into the pic squirrel works.

tink

Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: ] #30512
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Mine is an unintentional double entendre.

There's the old platitude, "Time wounds all heels" (or something like that), and then after I chose the name, I read that Zimbardo book, "The Time Paradox", and then I began reading more about research regarding psychology and time perspectives, and I have since become pretty convinced that having a functional time perspective profile is pretty much key to living an emotionally and mentally healthy and happy life.


Your Time Perspective Can Heal
Mend the broken, make strong the weak and vanquish the evil.
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: TimeHeals] #30523
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I was Maple Gal on DB.
Then I found out about OW and her name.
Her initials were MG so I changed my name to just Maple.

Maple as in the leaf on the Canadian Flag.


Me: 43, STBXH: 43
2 DD: 7 & 5

Together: 17 Married: 10
Jan 2010- Piecing
Feb 2013 - Separated
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: maple] #30842
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Originally Posted By: maple


Maple as in the leaf on the Canadian Flag.


then you need my avatar! smile


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Good friend to many
Best friend to myself
Future partner to one amazing man out there, somewhere
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: say lavee] #30846
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One of my favorite mantras that got me through many hard days/nights .. was "it is what it is".

C'est la vie. (say lavee) is a version of that.


~ Say Lavee
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Mom to 2 wonderful young people
Good friend to many
Best friend to myself
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Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: say lavee] #30866
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Your Time Perspective Can Heal
Mend the broken, make strong the weak and vanquish the evil.
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #31886
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Originally Posted By: Ace
We will update the lists soon....wow...200 members. Amazing for only 12 weeks or less. For the behind-the-scenes process, it's been much longer.


Finally got a moment to update this member list of screen names. According to the right column log, we have 258 members.

Below are two lists in alphabetical order:

The first list includes members with 5 or more posts.

The second one lists members with less than 5 posts as of Fri. Dec. 3, 2010 but who have logged in to MA at least once since Nov. 1, 2010.

Posters who have registered but have not posted yet can be found on the latter pages of the User List which can be accessed from the link above.

Members with 5 or more posts as of Dec. 3, 2010:

*~aeri~* (Member #104)
2long (Member #10)
40andsadintexas (Member #182)
Ace (Member #14)
Allen_A (Member #110)
AlTurtle (Member #19)
AnotherShot (Member #130)
AntigoneRisen (Member #5)
aphelion (Member #69)
asher (Member #185)
asher27 (Member #201)
at peace (Member #67)
believer (Member #39)
Belle96 (Member #161)
blahblahblah (Member #219)
BrambleRose (Member #53)
Bugsmom (Member #72)
bustorama (Member #215)
CajunRose (Member #176)
Camper (Member #88)
catperson (Member #29)
CD Bear (Member #121)
Chailover (Member #64)
Chris (Member #108)
chrisner (Member #116)
Chrysalis (Member #25)
cinderella (Member #16)
Coach (Member #122)
Comfortably Numb (Member #111)
crazed student (Member #33)
Curious (Member #90)
dadzzi (Member #118)
Danf (Member #140)
Db9 (Member #177)
Desert Rose (Member #189)
diamondsj (Member #85)
Don Man Don (Member #252)
DumpedforMIL (Member #131)
Eeyore No More (Member #115)
EJohn (Member #157)
Eph525 (Member #103)
faith3343 (Member #55)
Flick (Member #30)
flowmom (Member #239)
ForeverHers (Member #100)
Forrest Gump (Member #132)
futureunknown (Member #192)
Gladstone (Member #4)
gr8 day 2b alive (Member #174)
Greek (Member #171)
Gucci Loafer (Member #253)
gutwrenching (Member #213)
Happy Again (Member #48)
heartbroken (Member #46)
heremainsfaithful (Member #91)
hoosiermama (Member #209)
hope147 (Member #194)
Hope4Luv (Member #220)
hurtinhartford (Member #179)
idontunderstand (Member #183)
ImOK (Member #59)
jaymeister (Member #166)
JimK (Member #12)
john28 (Member #198)
johnstwin (Member #41)
jollynot (Member #210)
JoysDaddy (Member #81)
Kayla (Member #75)
KellBell0820 (Member #199)
kilted_thrower (Member #73)
kimmie lee (Member #162)
Kittycat (Member #36)
KiwiJ (Member #22)
LaFemme (Member #119)
Larry (Member #43)
Le* (Member #15)
Lifechoice (Member #20)
lildoggie (Member #23)
live'n'kickin (Member #148)
LivingWell (Member #86)
Looking4 (Member #27)
Lor (Member #76)
lost rabbit (Member #217)
LovingAnyway (Member #3)
lowesd51 (Member #188)
maple (Member #187)
Mark1952 (Member #18)
markos (Member #106)
Medc (Member #34)
Mimi (Member #47)
mirage (Member #71)
MyRevelation (Member #57)
myschae (Member #224)
Mystik (Member #218)
mza8 (Member #125)
nameless (Member #155)
new_beginning (Member #52)
NewEveryDay (Member #26)
nikko (Member #70)
Not2fun (Member #51)
Number6InGreen (Member #136)
NYGfan (Member #142)
OnTheRocks (Member #233)
Orchid2 (Member #66)
OurHouse (Member #8)
Owl10 (Member #170)
pearlharbr (Member #153)
piano (Member #172)
Pinhead (Member #164)
PMA_BABY! (Member #195)
pookie69 (Member #173)
princessmeggy (Member #248)
PSUBIKER (Member #127)
Puppy Dog Tails (Member #114)
QueeniesAdventures (Member #42)
Quoth The Raven (Member #144)
Ready2Change (Member #181)
redhat (Member #68)
Resonance (Member #78)
Rich57 (Member #191)
right here waiting (Member #13)
rob x (Member #208)
rockedworld (Member #190)
Rollercoasterider (Member #247)
Romeo (Member #232)
Rural Idiot (Member #246)
rwinger (Member #63)
say lavee (Member #147)
Saynomore (Member #143)
Seeing Red (Member #146)
seekingbalance (Member #113)
serendipitous (Member #49)
Serenity13 (Member #227)
SFB (Member #58)
ShinyLover (Member #61)
ShockedOne (Member #193)
SIHW (Member #37)
silentlucidity (Member #92)
silverado (Member #123)
SisteReed (Member #89)
SmartCookie (Member #45)
Snowgoer (Member #32)
So Ashamed (Member #235)
SoL (Member #99)
Soleil (Member #221)
soolee (Member #62)
SpyBunny (Member #211)
star*fish (Member #6)
starbar808 (Member #105)
staytogether (Member #35)
Steadfast & Committed (Member #11)
still seeking (Member #134)
Striving4better (Member #84)
SunnyD (Member #120)
SurvivalnAK (Member #138)
Telly (Member #56)
theantichick (Member #21)
TimeHeals (Member #159)
tinkerbell (Member #98)
ToBeContinued (Member #44)
trix (Member #102)
Vibrissa (Member #112)
VioletMist (Member #101)
Violin (Member #214)
Vittoria (Member #28)
Vulcanized (Member #169)
weaves (Member #24)
willing2work (Member #200)

Members with less than 5 posts as of 12-3-10 but have logged onto MA at least once since 11-1-10:

Boo (Member #79)
Brownhair (Member #137)
Circe (Member #175)
clark_kent (Member #245)
DangerDave (Member #256)
DH4now (Member #229)
Docp_ (Member #242)
doingfine (Member #151)
drgnfly (Member #226)
Edmond Dantes (Member #202)
fddlr3 (Member #222)
GingerSnap (Member #180)
GoldenYears (Member #257)
Holyheart (Member #150)
KerryK (Member #228)
LostBoy68 (Member #83)
LostHusband (Member #31)
mrbond (Member #168)
mulesqb (Member #254)
New Dane (Member #225)
newmama (Member #251)
NotCrackingUp (Member #184)
Purple (Member #206)
SDFoundGirl (Member #236)
Sunnyosity (Member #203)
Want2Stay (Member #93)
XeraRose (Member #128)

Thanks to all who have registered and are helping Marriage Advocates to grow and reach out to more people.

It's fun to read why posters chose their screen names. It could be life-changing, however, if/when members recruit others not yet mentioned who could benefit from the caring community we are building.

Blessings to all,
Ace


We're overcoming decades of marital dysfunction including abuse, passive aggression, gas-lighting & infidelity (both of us).

Our Weird and Ongoing Story
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #31922
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Over on the DB board I was originally SDLostGirl. Once I detached and "found" myself, I changed it to "Found." The SD stands for my location.

Not terribly original, but I love the found part of my name. I really did find myself through all of this mess.

SD


Me: 42, H: 44
Bombed: 5/2006
Reconciled: 9/2006
Marriage on track: 2009
Starting to Doubt: 11/2011
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: SDFoundGirl] #32040
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Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
Over on the DB board I was originally SDLostGirl. Once I detached and "found" myself, I changed it to "Found." The SD stands for my location.

Not terribly original, but I love the found part of my name. I really did find myself through all of this mess.

SD


Hi SDFoundGirl,

Original, smoriginal...what's important is that you're recovering (or recoverED!!!) Congratulations! claps

I see by your sig line that you and I have similar timelines. One of our MA mods named right here waiting was "bombed upon" (clever term and very appropriate) during the months of May/June in 2006, too.

Welcome to Marriage Advocates. So glad you and your DB comrades have joined us in the fight to save marriages here on MA.

I will look up your story but in the meantime, would you be so kind as to consider writing a post on the Success Stories thread, please? It doesn't have to be long but we are hoping to inspire the masses by sharing what worked to help us begin the long road to recovery. (Maybe we'll call it the MASS thread for Marriage Advocates Success Stories! )

Anyone desiring to share is welcome on that thread.... long or short, details or generalities, DB or MB or any other program that helped you. Please share.

Our forums will eventually include an MA Recovery section so this Construction Zone thread is in its temporary home. The good part, however, is that you have unlimited time to edit while in the Construction Zone.

Again, thanks for posting here and I hope you'll share your ordeal on the Success Stories thread, too.

Ace

Last edited by Ace; 12/05/10 04:09 PM. Reason: add link to Success Story thread in Construction Zone & tweak a few words

We're overcoming decades of marital dysfunction including abuse, passive aggression, gas-lighting & infidelity (both of us).

Our Weird and Ongoing Story
Re: ***SCREEN NAMES...WHY did you choose YOURS?*** [Re: Ace] #32051
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Lost Rabbit

When I was a little girl I used to hide in my bed when things got tough, Dad used to say I was like a rabbit in her hole!

Well H left my first instinct was to "hole up" in my bed.. But I found DB and also found I was a lot tougher than I ever thought I could be.. Im not longer a "lost" rabbit, perhaps a bit of a "bewildered" rabbit known again grin

My H finally came back after six months and now I am "Strong Rabbit" but I leave it as "lost" to remind me I never have to be again, and my life is what I chose it to be..


Once was lost but now found and happily married!

The story
http://www.marriageadvocates.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php/topics/34625/Where_do_I_go

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