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Growing Pains #398590
11/13/15 04:10 PM
11/13/15 04:10 PM
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It's hard to believe that MA has been in existence for over five years now. Posts and PMs now total half a million, and growing everyday. We're sure you've noticed that sometimes the site is slow and recently has been unavailable a couple of times. Frankly, it's surprising we've been able to last this long without more problems, but we have AntigoneRisen's technical skills to thank for that, and she's been able to conserve our resources, without ever losing any of data.

We want to reassure everyone that we are committed to continuing to guard your data and provide our members with a well-functioning forum. We also wanted to let you know we have not been hacked and are currently remedying the problem by purchasing more disk space so the forum doesn't experience any unnecessary downtime. As soon as we've completed this upgrade, we'll let you know. It is possible the site could be unavailable for a bit during the upgrade process. If so, it shouldn't be long before we're back up and operating smoothly.

Look for some other new changes in the next few months.

Re: Growing Pains [Re: right here waiting] #398657
11/15/15 03:30 PM
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All,

Today we executed the order (purchased) 50% more disk space. This disk space should be added in the next couple of hours. There is a small possibility that a reboot of the servers will be necessary. If that's the case, we may experience no more than 5 minutes of site unavailability.

Thank you for your understanding.

Regards,
AR


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Re: Growing Pains [Re: AntigoneRisen] #399125
11/19/15 07:22 PM
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All,

Now that we have more disk space, I can begin some software maintenance. This will require the site to be down, because I have to back it up and then restore to that backup point.

Regards,
AR


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Re: Growing Pains [Re: AntigoneRisen] #399367
11/22/15 09:10 PM
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All,

Today I have applied some software changes (updates, configuration, etc) to the server. We've had 4 reboots in that process.

I thank everyone for their patience and understanding,
AR


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