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The Good News About Feeling Pain #405687
02/26/16 08:35 PM
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I love this article and it sums up so much about how I feel:

http://www.cherigregory.com/the-good-news-about-feeling-bad/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=facebook_page&utm_medium=To%20Love,%20Honor%20and%20Vacuum

Re: The Good News About Feeling Pain [Re: Marta] #405695
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The whole "life is pain" sounds like one of those Cognitive Distortions I posted about. wink

However, I get that the message is that life contains pain. It is a normal part of life, and you can't avoid it.


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Re: The Good News About Feeling Pain [Re: AntigoneRisen] #405700
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Yes, but notice she didn't say it was ALL pain, that was her whole point... It was pain AND hope...or Pain and joy or whatever.


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