Miranda, I've known you for almost 2 years now, so when you have very good reasons, I have no problem taking your word for it. I think more time will help me with this too
On a positive note, can I just say, my mom *really* likes this one She didn't get the bad gut feel she had with B and L. That is really helping my trust my gut here too And my whole family fell in love with bf's DS5
"I have everything I need." and "I am exactly where I am supposed to be." ~Louise Hays
Resurrecting this thread, not sure if this is the current one, however it will do for now. I posted on this thread a year ago in September. Since then I have been dating someone exclusively. In February I will have been divorced for 4 years. So I feel it is time to keep moving forward and not get stuck. Yes grieving prior to dating is a must.
I must admit being with someone that has similar love languages as myself is very nice. I have learned so much and one of the activities we did was to read His Needs Her Needs again, makes a big difference reading it when you relationship is not in crisis.
Oh and FTR I also met gr8 day 2b alive and his current GF.
I've stayed on the dating site just to keep up with the guys I've met. Some of them are friends.
I got this message Sunday night from a new guy -
"Do I read? ✔ Do I write? ✔ Do I lack facial hair? ✔ Am I not a serial killer? ✔ I enjoyed your profile, you have a great smile, I enjoy your sarcasm, and I'm glad you haven't been killed by an OKCupid serial killer. Hope you've been having an enjoyable weekend.
Drat, the ✔ things are green check marks. I thought it was an attractive message, much better than the usual.
Last edited by Fiddler; 06/29/1603:54 AM. Reason: Fixed check marks
"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."