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Re: Roll Call [Re: Fiddler] #445491
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Originally Posted by Fiddler
Count me in for a revival!

While I don't have AR's level of tech skills, I'm not entirely clueless.


Hi Fiddler,

Thanks so much for offering to help with tech issues. I have hope that we can rebuild and re-FIRE-UP Marriage Advocates Discussion Forums.

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I've appreciated your input over the years but I'm not sure about your story. Is it posted on a thread somewhere?

Again, THANKS and congratulations on your promotion to being on the MA Board of Directors! clapping

Blessings,
Ace


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Re: Roll Call [Re: right here waiting] #445492
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Originally Posted by right here waiting
Hi, Acey! Are you out of town on vaca? I KNOW it’s not a business trip since you’ve retired. thumbsup
Hope all’s well with you and hubby.


Hi RHW,

When you retire, isn't every day a vacation?

I take that back. ---- PRE- COVID days and transporting grandchildren to/from Hybrid Remote School sessions, retirement meant VACATION DAYS every day.

Hopefully we are headed back to that status soon. My thread on another forum shares a little about my being out of town temporarily.

Thanks,
Ace


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Ace] #445494
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Retirement, in its early days, is a vacation. But you soon load up your plate again, ‘cause you still have energy that needs spending.

Ask me how I know. razz

Re: Roll Call [Re: right here waiting] #445495
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Originally Posted by right here waiting
Retirement, in its early days, is a vacation. But you soon load up your plate again, ‘cause you still have energy that needs spending.

Ask me how I know. razz


So How Do YOU Know,, RHW?


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Ace] #445496
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Because, the further I get into retirement, the more involved I’ve gotten in volunteer stuff... community stuff, church stuff and, of course, local grandchildren who weren’t here when I was working.

But the biggest change in how my time is spent is a result of husband retiring!
Can I get an amen? lol

Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445502
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Glad that the SSL issue was straightened out.

I would be pleased to help those that need our style of help here.

SFB


Finding an ethical way to deal with pain, fear, disappointment etc..is part of the experience of becoming a stronger person...one who is driven by compassion instead of compulsion...ie I have a legitimate reason to be stressed out right now...however, my response to it will determine how others percieve me, and myself. (quoting Star*Fish)
Re: Roll Call [Re: SFB] #445503
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Originally Posted by right here waiting
Because, the further I get into retirement, the more involved I’ve gotten in volunteer stuff... community stuff, church stuff and, of course, local grandchildren who weren’t here when I was working.

But the biggest change in how my time is spent is a result of husband retiring!
Can I get an amen? lol


I know what you mean, RHW. 6 words made my "retirement plate choices" rather limited: Grandsons' Remote Schooling, Family Health Challenges

Again, it was my choice but the timing was actually somewhat convenient. I may put more details on my other thread.

Originally Posted by SFB
Glad that the SSL issue was straightened out.

I would be pleased to help those that need our style of help here.

SFB


Hi SFB,

My hero. Not sure I would've stuck it out at the other place if you had not defended me when I was attacked directly and indirectly.

Thanks for checking in.

Ace

P.S. I've been posting on a UBB message board for nearly 14 years. I never knew you could double quote in one post without quoting once and then manually moving a second quote via C/P methods. I know we have some Tech suggestions but I think it might be nice to have a "short-cuts" tutorial posted on our Tech section on UBB board posting hints and suggestions for things like that. Does anyone know of another site that has one we could beg, borrow, or outright steal?


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Re: Roll Call [Re: SFB] #445504
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Originally Posted by SFB
Glad that the SSL issue was straightened out.

I would be pleased to help those that need our style of help here.

SFB


Thanks, SFB.

Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445510
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I'm here. Now that I know MA is "back" I will check in regularly.


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Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445511
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Re: Roll Call [Re: Chrysalis] #445551
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Woohoo! Hiya Chrys! waves Good to “see” you!

Re: Roll Call [Re: right here waiting] #445552
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And boo! to you too, lil! lol

Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445584
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So,

how can I best help?


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Lil] #445595
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Originally Posted by Lil
So,

how can I best help?


You've helped a lot, Lil, by adding a little energy to the forums. How fun to see all the bumping you've been doing.

Thanks,

Ace


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Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445726
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Hi there,

How's life? What's happening?

Queenie


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I came here as skinsgal and became Queenie because G-d had plans for me, plans to prosper me.

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Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445727
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Queenie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*insert fan girl screams*


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Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445728
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The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal.-- Frank Pittman
Re: Roll Call [Re: Mark1952] #445730
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Hello... great to see you, Queenie!

Originally Posted by Mark1952
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(one of the shortest "Mark Posts" eveh! )


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Ace] #445731
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Originally Posted by Ace
Hello... great to see you, Queenie!

Originally Posted by Mark1952
waves

(one of the shortest "Mark Posts" eveh! )


Bwahahahaha !


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Lil] #445732
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Originally Posted by Lil

Bwahahahaha !



Your laugh is infectious, Lil. When so few of us are posting, sometimes your laugh is the only post in the morning..

Thanks,
Ace


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Ace] #445735
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Originally Posted by Ace
Originally Posted by Lil

Bwahahahaha !



Your laugh is infectious, Lil. When so few of us are posting, sometimes your laugh is the only NEW post in the morning..

Thanks,
Ace


Too late to edit so I'll add the word "NEW" like this. Lil's laugh is often the only NEW post in the morning.


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Re: Roll Call [Re: Lil] #445752
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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
Hi there,

How's life? What's happening?

Queenie


Welcome back, Queenie! Delighted you’ve discovered MA is up and running without scary messages.

Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445757
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I didnt want to post kn the thread itself, but I notice with iinterest that there have been 29 views of the covid and infidelity article. I dont think we have 29 active members right now, so we are getting some traffic...


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Re: Roll Call [Re: star*fish] #445763
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