Smiling, the judge and ruling in the UK was on Amber/the newspaper’s side. This trial is still ongoing. I was frustrated with family members repeating debunked statements about Heard’s past before this marriage, trying to prove a pattern. But it was more helpful to talk with my loved ones about what is really bothering them, patterns at their own workplaces with their own coworkers. It was more helpful to reason through these real life issues than talking points about people we don’t have to deal with.